15 KINK TOYS FOR BDSM BEGINNERS

Greetings, fellow pleasure seekers! Are you ready to take a walk on the wild side? Well, buckle up (or should I say, cuff up?) because we're about to dive headfirst into a list of the top 15 light bondage sex toys that will spice up your month like a jalapeno-covered chocolate truffle!

If you’re new to BDSM or bondage play, check out our guide to kinks article to help you ease into this new adventure.

Feather Tickler

Imagine a whisper so delicate, it's like an angel gently brushing your skin. This feather tickler is here to tease and please, turning your partner into a puddle of desire, begging for more tantalizing touches.

How to use it: Prepare your partner in a sensual atmosphere. Whether they're blindfolded or simply ready for a surprise, make sure your partner is relaxed and open to receiving some feather tickling sensations. 

Start slow and gentle. Use the feather tickler to graze lightly across your partner's skin, teasing and tantalizing them with the softest touches. You can start from the neck and work your way down, exploring all of their sensitive spots along the way. The goal is to build anticipation and heighten their pleasure.

Sex toy recommendation: Easy Toys Feather Tickler

Silk Rope

Feel the seductive caress of silk as it wraps around your wrists, signaling surrender and opening up a magical world of pleasure. Rope is secure and sensual, it's like a hug for your desires.

How to use it: You don't have to be an expert to enjoy the pleasure of Japanese-style bondage play when you use the super-soft and silky Deluxe Silky Rope. It's ideal for those who simply want to tie their partner's hands and feet together, and long and durable enough for those who want to engage in Shibari-style rope bondage.

Sex toy recommendation: Pipedream Fetish Fantasy Series Deluxe Silk Rope

Blindfold

Picture a roller coaster speeding through the darkness, twisting and turning with every unexpected thrill. That's exactly what you'll experience when you slip on a blindfold, leaving you powerless but ready to be swept away by sensations you never knew existed.

Now, you can find blindfolds in all shapes, sizes, and materials. Whether you’re after a simple eye mask, or a bondage hood, choose one that tickles your fancy and gets your partner's imagination running wild.

How to use it: Tighten that blindfold (gently!). With your partner's consent, carefully slide the blindfold over their eyes, ensuring that their vision is blocked. Remember, the goal here is to heighten their other senses, not to turn them into a bumbling blindfolded bee.

Tease and tantalize them. Now that they're blindfolded, it's time to explore the depths of their sensory playground. Use soft touches, whispers in their ear, or even the feather tickler we discussed earlier to send shivers down their spine. The element of surprise is your ally here!

Sex toy recommendation: Execute Eye Mask With Microfiber Lace

Nipple Clamps

Ah, the sweet mixture of pain and pleasure with nipple stimulation. These little devils will have your heart racing as they tighten their grip, sending a wave of delightful shivers throughout your body. Get ready to have your sensitivity turned up to eleven and view our range of nipple clamps, nipple pump adult toys, nipple suction,  vibrating nipple clamps and weighted nipple clamps.

How to use it: Choose your clamps wisely, dear adventurer. Like blindfolds, nipple clamps come in a variety of shapes, sizes, and materials. Some are dainty and decorative, while others are bold and forceful. Find the ones that make your heart skip a beat and make sure they're comfortable for your sensitive areas. Safety first, after all! 

Position those precious peaks perfectly. Gently, my intrepid adventurer, gently! Ensure your nipples are properly positioned within the clamps before applying any pressure. The goal is to find that sweet spot between pleasure and pain. Don't worry, you'll figure it out with a bit of trial and error! Communicate, communicate, communicate! Throughout your nipple-clamping escapades, keep the dialogue flowing.

Unclamp and savor the afterglow. When you've had your fill of nipple-clamping delight, gently release the clamp's grip, allowing your nipples to bask in the freedom they deserve. Take a moment to embrace the lingering sensations, cuddle with your partner, or simply revel in the pleasure you've just experienced together.

Sex toy recommendation: Pipedream Fetish Fantasy Gold Chain Nipple Clamps

Furry Handcuffs

Who says bondage can't be adorable? These furry handcuffs add a playful and cuddly twist to your restraint play. They're the cuddliest way to surrender control and give in to your deepest desires.

How to use it: Secure your lovers wrists together or attach them to the bed with Lovetoy’s fluffy metal Handcuffs Give yourself the power of dominance and see how your sexy lover will respond -anticipation is everything!

Sex toy recommendation: Lovetoy Fetish Pleasure Fluffy Handcuffs

Whips

Let's whip things up a bit, shall we? Floggers, commonly referred to as a bondage whip, will add a little sting to your intimate moments, whisking you away into a world of pleasure and exploration. It's even more fun if you swish it around while humming the infamous Indiana Jones theme song!

How to use it: Before we dive into the art of wielding a whip, don't forget safety should always be a priority in your whip-infused adventures. Make sure you have a clear understanding of your limitations, communication signals, and any potential risks. Master the flick of the wrist, my whip-wielding virtuoso. 

The secret to whip mastery lies in your wrist's finesse. Start with small, controlled movements and gradually build up speed and strength. Remember, it's all about precision and accuracy. Your goal is to create a deliciously tantalizing sensation, not deliver an accidental slapstick comedy routine!

Sex toy recommendation: NS Novelties Bondage Couture Flogger

Ball Gag

Silence is golden, as they say. And with a ball gag, silence also becomes incredibly tantalizing. Give up control, surrender to your partner's whims, and get ready for a seriously intense and deliciously speechless experience.

How to use it: Just like choosing the perfect accessory to complete an outfit, finding the right ball gag is crucial. Consider aspects like size, material, and comfort level. Before you embark on this journey, have a candid conversation with your partner about your desires and boundaries. Establish non-verbal signals, as the ball gag will temporarily restrict your ability to articulate your thoughts. Consensual understanding and trust are a must!

With the strap in hand, position the ball gag with precision. Take a moment to adjust the straps, making sure they're snug but not overly tight. Balance is the name of the game here, as you want to allow your partner to comfortably enjoy the experience without putting any undue strain on those lovely jaws.Ensure that you choose a ball gag with a quick-release buckle or a safe-word system. It's all about peace of mind and knowing you have control over the situation.

Sex toy recommendation: Sportsheets Saffron Breathable Silicone Ball Gag

Ankle Restraints

These ankle cuffs will leave your partner weak at the knees, both literally and figuratively. Get ready to feel the exquisite thrill of being bound from head to toe, creating a delicious sense of vulnerability and anticipation.

How to use it: Always prioritize safety in your kinky endeavors. Ensure that the ankle restraints you choose have a reliable and adjustable fastening mechanism. Safety is the name of the game, and nobody wants an ankle restraint mishap to turn into a clumsy comedy skit!

Step into restraintland, my adventurous soul. Once you have your ankle restraints in hand, it's time to embark on the magical journey of restraining those tantalizing ankles. Take a moment to adjust the straps to a snug, but not overly tight, fit. We want to ensure the ankles are secure, but still comfortable for the wearer. After all, we're here for fun, not for foot cramps!

Now embrace the power dynamics. Whether you're dominating or surrendering, ankle restraints can enhance the thrill of power play. Allow yourself to fully immerse in the experience, exploring the delicious sensation of being bound or binding another. It's a dance of trust, liberation, and a surefire way to add some spice to your playtime!

Sex toy recommendation: NS Novelties Bondage Couture Ankle Cuffs

Vibrating Cock Ring

Why settle for mere pleasure when you can have explosive pleasure? Slip on a vibrating cock ring and watch sparks fly as you both reach new heights of ecstasy. Remember, teamwork makes the dream work!

How to use it:  Before diving into the electrifying adventure, gather your trusted partner(s) and have a candid yet playful conversation about boundaries, desires, and any exciting scenarios you'd like to explore. Remember, open communication is the superpower that leads to thrilling pleasure-filled escapades.

Slip and slide, my slippery seducer. Apply a touch of water-based lubricant to the penis and slide the vibrating cock ring down to the base. Adjust it for a snug fit, ensuring that it's comfortably in place.

Activate the vibrations and let the pulsating magic begin. Feel the electrifying waves of pleasure ripple through your shaft and provide tantalizing sensations. It's like a symphony of vibration and stimulation that will have you dancing with delight.

Sex toy recommendation: Satisfyer Incredible Duo Ring Vibrator

Bondage Paddle

Time to give your partner a spanking good time! Delve into some light BDSM play and discover the exhilarating thrill of impact with a bondage paddle. Just be sure to negotiate a safeword beforehand, because you'll be having so much fun, you might forget your own name!

How to use it: Start with a gentle touch, my tender spanker. Begin by caressing and exploring your partner's skin with light, teasing touches. The anticipation will have them squirming with excitement. It's like a tantalizing dance, building up the tension before the main event.

With firm but controlled movements, give a gentle tap with the paddle to start. Gradually increase the intensity, reading your partner's reactions and adjusting accordingly. Remember, it's not about whacking away like a crazed lumberjack—aim for rhythmic strokes that alternate between pleasure and delightful stings.

Sex toy recommendation: NS Novelties Bondage Couture Paddle

Bondage Tape

Let your imagination run wild with this magical bondage tape that sticks only to itself. Wrap, twist, and turn it into all sorts of creative and customizable bondage scenarios. It's like having a roll of adventure at your fingertips!

How to use it: From securing your partner's wrists together or to the bedpost, to masterfully winding it around their enticing curves, our bondage tape empowers you to enact your fantasies with the utmost control. But don't just stop at restraint. You can multiply the thrills by employing it as an impromptu blindfold, intensifying the suspense and sensory exploration. The glistening, smooth finish of the tape presents a visually alluring spectacle that stimulates the senses, setting the stage for an unforgettable encounter.

Sex toy recommendation: Evolved 20 Meter Bondage Tape

BDSM Pinwheels

It's all about the prickly pleasures with this wickedly delightful pinwheel. Glide it over your partner's body, and watch as their excitement spikes with each gentle touch. It's like giving a sensual massage with tiny spikes. Ooh la la!

How to use it: While pinwheels may appear intimidating at first glance, rest assured that their sensation-enhancing properties far outweigh their appearance. Their tiny spikes or wheels deliver pleasurable sensations without causing harm when used responsibly.

Originally developed as a medical device for testing nerve reactions, these pinwheels have now become a staple in the world of intimate play. Their precise construction and rolling mechanism allow for controlled and varied sensations, making them a versatile addition to your pleasure arsenal.

Sex toy recommendation: X-Cite Pleasure & Pain Pinwheel

Collar and Leash

Ready to embrace your inner animal? With an elegant collar and leash set, you can explore the realms of dominance and submission. Whether you're a purring kitten or a fierce wolf, get ready to unleash your most primal desires. Browse leading industry brands like S(A)X, Spartacus, Fifty Shades, and more!

How to use it: Before getting all tangled up in your leash, have a candid conversation with your partner(s). Discuss boundaries, consent, and desires. It's essential to establish trust and ensure everyone is on the same leash... umm, I mean page.

Become the ultimate pet, my fierce creature. Slip on your chosen collar, and let the inner pet in you purr with excitement. Embrace your role wholeheartedly. Wiggle your tail, crawl on all fours, and let your imagination run wild! Remember, this is your chance to truly embody your pet persona and let go of inhibitions.

Sex toy recommendation: NS Novelties Bondage Couture Collar and Leash

Door Sex Swing

Need a helping hand (or strap) to reach those wild positions? A sex swing, also referred to as a bondage sling, is here to save the day! It'll make even the craziest acrobatics feel effortless, giving you the freedom to indulge in pleasure from every angle imaginable.

How to use it:  Just secure the sling over your door by closing it on the dowels and adjust each of the straps to the perfect lengths for your bodies and chosen position. The footrests, hand straps, and a padded seat ensure comfort during your most vigorous carnal explorations. When you're both satisfied, this sling is easy to take down and store away for next time!

Sex toy recommendation: Sportsheets Door Jam Sex Sling

 

Bed Bondage Restraint

This all-in-one restraint system will transform your bedroom into the ultimate play zone. Surrender control and let the bondage restraint kit guide you on a journey of blissful exploration. The only question is, can you handle all the pleasure that awaits? 

How to use it: Make any bed your bondage playground with this easy to install kit. No bed posts required! Four soft cuffs are attached to 60 inch adjustable straps. Also includes a 60 inch adjustable connector strap for a secure fit. Portable and perfect for travel. 

Sex toy recommendation: Sportsheets Sex & Mischief Bed Bondage Restraint Kit

Now that you have this tantalizing list at your fingertips, it's time to embark on a journey of exploration and pleasure like never before. Remember, consent is key, communication is sexy, and experimentation is what makes life fun! So, whether you're a seasoned bondage aficionado or a curious beginner, grab your toys, explore your desires, and let the sparks fly. May your month be filled with unforgettable moments of passion and pleasure! Stay naughty, my friends