How to Use a Dildo
Today, we're diving deep into the world of self-pleasure. Let's talk about something that some may consider a taboo topic but is actually quite normal and healthy: how to use a dildo for self-pleasure. Whether you're a curious beginner or someone looking to enhance their solo pleasure sessions, we've got you covered. So, grab a cup of tea and settle in as we explore the art of utilising a dildo with confidence.
What is a Dildo?
First things first, let's get acquainted with what exactly a dildo is. Simply put, it's an object designed for sexual pleasure. Dildos come in various shapes, sizes, and materials, allowing you to choose what suits your preferences best. At Pleasure Chest, Sydney’s best adult store, we stock a range of body- safe silicone dildos, stainless steel and sculptured glass. Remember, there's no right or wrong when it comes to your desires, so embrace your curiosity!
Next, it's vital to engage in personal exploration and self-awareness. By reflecting on your desires and comfort levels, you can gain a better understanding of what you want to explore further. It's important to destigmatize the use of sex toys for personal pleasure. Remember, your sexuality is yours to explore and enjoy.
Preparing to Masturbate
Creating a comfortable atmosphere before delving into self-pleasure is crucial. Privacy is key, as it allows you to relax and fully focus on yourself. Consider setting the mood with soft lighting, your favorite tunes, or even a scented candle to enhance your sensual experience.
Techniques for Using a Dildo
Now, let's get to know your dildo better. Familiarize yourself with its features, shape, and texture. Get comfortable holding and maneuvering it, discovering what feels good for you. Finding the right positions for your self-pleasure journey is vital. Experiment with various positions to find what works best for your body and maximizes pleasure. Don't be afraid to try different angles, as they can enhance stimulation and make the experience even more mind-blowing.
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Deep ThrustingThis technique is as straightforward as it sounds. When using a dildo, thrust it deep inside your vagina for intense stimulation. Textured dildos work wonders for this technique, but make sure you choose one with a firm core to avoid bending. Avoid overly soft dildos as they can make deep thrusting more challenging. If highly textured toys feel overwhelming, go for a smoother or curved dildo for a more comfortable experience. |
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Short and ShallowDid you know that most of the sensitive nerve endings in your vagina are concentrated in the first third? That means you don't have to go deep to experience mind-blowing pleasure. Opt for short and rapid strokes with your dildo to focus on the most sensitive areas. Not only will this technique provide maximum pleasure, but it might also be easier on your wrists. Remember, you don't have to insert the full length of your dildo. Use the extra length as a handle and take full control! |
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Rock It OutWho says you have to stick to a straight dildo? Rocking your dildo involves moving it back and forth at an angle, so the tip applies pressure to the bottom of your vagina. If you're lying on your back, point your dildo downwards as you push it in. Not only will rockin' it give you a sensation similar to thrusting, but it can also stimulate your clitoris and enhance pleasure around the vaginal opening. Choose a dildo with some flexibility, like soft silicone or curved toys designed for dual clitoral and vaginal stimulation, for the ultimate experience. |
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Keep on TurningEver heard of "juicers"? These dildos come with cranks that you can turn after inserting them. Most dildos work well with this motion, as long as there aren't any uncomfortable sharp angles. Give it a spin and experience a whole new level of pleasure! |
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Milk the G SpotFor all the ladies seeking earth-shattering pleasure, try the G Spot milking technique. Drag the top part of your dildo across your G Spot as you pull outward, then push it against the top part of your vagina as you slide it back inside. This technique works best with rigid toys made of glass, wood, or metal. You can even find dildos specifically designed with a curve for G Spot stimulation. If you want to explore more G Spot techniques, check out our detailed guide |
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Feeling FullSometimes motion isn't everything. You can simply insert a comfortable dildo and let it do its magic while you focus on stimulating your clit to orgasm. Enjoy the feeling of fullness even while the toy remains in the same place. To enhance this sensation, press down on your lower stomach with your hand(s) to push your G Spot deeper into your vagina. |
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Double PenetrationThinking about trying out double penetration? Give it a shot! Here are four ways to have some fun with a dildo:
Before diving into the experience with your man, it's a good idea to test it out solo first. This way, you can get a feel for what you like and what works for you. Oh, and remember to clean anything that goes in your bum before using it near your lady parts. Have a blast exploring this wild adventure with yourself or your man (or maybe even more than one!). |
Hygiene and safety should always be a priority. It's necessary to clean and sanitize your dildo with a sex toy cleaner both before and after each use. There are specific cleaning instructions for different types of dildos, so make sure to follow the recommendations provided. Additionally, using an appropriate lubricant is essential for a smooth and safe experience.
And with that, we conclude our beginner's guide to using a dildo for self-pleasure. Remember, exploring your own body and desires is a beautiful and empowering journey. There's no shame in embracing your sexuality and seeking pleasure on your own terms.
At Pleasure Chest, we've got a huge selection of dildo toys, including strap on dildos, double ended dildos, vibrating dildos and packing dildos of all shapes, sizes and shades. So go forth, dear reader, and embark on a fulfilling and empowered sexual experience. You deserve to know pleasure, and this is just the beginning. Happy exploring!
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