How to Use a Ball Gag

Are you curious about trying out ball gags but not sure where to start? Look no further! Ball gags may seem a bit intimidating at first, but trust us, they can add a whole new level of pleasure and excitement to your intimate moments. Whether you're just beginning your BDSM journey or looking to spice things up in the bedroom, ball gags are a great addition to your sex toy collection.

What is a Ball Gag? 

Have you ever heard of a ball gag? It's a type of adult toy used in BDSM play that goes in the wearer's mouth to keep them from talking. The ball is usually made of silicone or rubber and is held in place by straps that go around the head.

When someone wears a ball gag, they might drool a bit and can't speak clearly, but they can still make other sounds like moans or grunts. In BDSM, the person wearing the gag is often seen as the submissive partner, while the other person is the dominant one.

How does a Ball Gag work?

Ball gags are meant to be comfortable, with holes for breathing, and are intended to muffle speech while allowing other noises to come through. This can add to the excitement and power dynamic between partners.

Why is a Ball Gag Used Sexually? 

The use of a bondage ball gag is a popular choice for those who enjoy a little physical restraint in their sexual play. Their small size and easy usability make them a favourite for many individuals. One reason why ball gags are so appealing is the power shift they create. The wearer can't speak, so they have to listen and the dominant partner gets to be in control, which can be a big turn on.

Some people find the depersonalization of getting ball gagged to be a thrilling aspect of BDSM play. It helps them stay present in the moment and out of their heads. The feeling of humiliation that can come with wearing a ball gag, from the inability to speak to the drooling, can also be a source of arousal for some individuals.

Additionally, wearing a BDSM ball gag can add a new layer of sensation to sexual acts by limiting the wearer's ability to participate in a mutual way. This changes the dynamic between partners and can enhance the overall experience.

There are so many reasons to give a sexual ball gag a try. From enhancing your dominant/submissive dynamic to allowing for uninhibited moans and groans during play, the possibilities are endless. Plus, they can add a visually stimulating element to your role-playing scenarios, making your fantasies even more exhilarating.

Types of Ball Gags

If you're new to exploring mouth gags in the world of BDSM, here's a rundown of the different types to help you find the perfect fit for your playtime.

  1. Ball gag: A classic choice, the ball gag features a ball made of rubber or silicone with an adjustable leather strap. This gag can cause lots of drooling and prevents the wearer from speaking or breathing through their mouth. To start, try a small, breathable ball gag to get comfortable with the sensation.
  2. Bit gag: Bit gags use a horizontal bar between the teeth instead of a ball. They offer more breathability and come in various materials like silicone, wood, and metal. For beginners, a silicone bit gag might be the best option for comfort.
  3. Lip gag: This type of gag has a plastic mouth expander that keeps the mouth open, with a hole in the middle for breathing. Lip gags, usually made of silicone, are perfect for those interested in giving blowjobs while gagged.
  4. O-ring gag: Made of metal o-rings, this gag restricts mouth movement but still allows for breathing and oral play.
  5. Spider gag: A spider gag features a metal o-ring with four spires extending out, making it more difficult for the wearer to move the gag around in their mouth and fostering a sense of submission.
  6. Penis gag: This style involves leather straps that fasten around the head with a small dildo acting as the mouthpiece. It can create the sensation of prolonged fellatio while gagged.

I hope this breakdown helps you in choosing the right mouth gag for your BDSM adventures!

How to Use a Ball Gag Safely? 

Love trying out new things in the bedroom? Ball gags can add a kinky element to your playtime with a partner. However, it's important to use caution and take care when using them. Most ball gags restrict the wearer's ability to breathe through their mouth, which can be uncomfortable physically and mentally.

  1. Communication is key. Before diving into any BDSM play, it's important to have a chat with your partner about boundaries and expectations. Start with a short timeframe (like ten to fifteen minutes) for wearing the gag, and make sure it fits comfortably for the wearer.
  2. Choose a safe signal. Since a ball gag limits speech, pick a non-verbal signal that the wearer can use to communicate when they want to stop. This could be a hand gesture, a tap, or even a specific sound.
  3. Stay close. Never leave your partner alone when they're gagged, just in case they need help removing it.
  4. Take care of yourself. If you're feeling under the weather, it's best to avoid using a ball gag until you're feeling better. If the wearer has allergies or a blocked nose, it's best to skip the ball gags for that session. 
  5. Keep it clean. Remember to wash your ball gag thoroughly after each use to prevent any bacteria buildup.

By following these tips, you'll be all set for a safe and enjoyable experience with your ball gag. Have fun!

Best Ball Gags Online

So, if you're ready to take your intimate moments to the next level, why not consider adding a ball gag to your bedroom routine? It's a small yet powerful tool that can unlock a world of pleasure and excitement for you and your partner.

 NS Novelties Bondage Couture Ball Gag - Black Unveil the NS Novelties Bondage Couture Ball Gag in chic black, perfect for elevating your intimate adventures. Crafted with care and style, this accessory guarantees luxury and comfort. With adjustable straps and premium materials, it's the ideal choice for beginners and experts alike. Embrace elegance and playfulness in the bedroom with NS Novelties.
Sportsheets Sex and Mischief Silicone Lips - Red
Get ready to spice up your bedroom with the Sportsheets Sex and Mischief Silicone Lips - Red! This high-quality silicone gag is soft, adjustable, and perfect for a sexy lipstick fantasy. With durable hardware and three colour options, it's a must-have for adding a touch of playfulness and seduction to your intimate moments.
XR Master Series Face Fuk Strap On
Experience the playful and thrilling Face Fuk from XR Brands Master Series! This latex strap-on allows for exciting mouth or chin play. The black dildo is firm yet flexible, providing a lifelike experience. With comfortable rubber straps, it fits most sizes effortlessly. Get ready for a unique adventure like never before!
Love In Leather Silicone Bit Gag
Looking to spice up your bedroom adventures? The Love In Leather Silicone Bit Gag in red is perfect for exploring bondage. With comfortable silicone straps, a stylish design, and a lockable buckle closure, this gag is a must-have for seasoned pros or beginners. Add excitement to your intimate moments today!
Oxballs Watersport Strap On Gag - Blue
Ready to dive into the world of watersports play? Introducing the Oxballs Watersport Strap On Gag - Blue! This unique gag is designed for a leak-free experience, with adjustable straps for a perfect fit. Made from safe, non-toxic materials, it's compatible with your favourite lubes. Get yours today and elevate your playtime!
Get ready to elevate your bondage play with the Love In Leather Silicone O Ring Gag. Crafted with premium materials for durability and comfort, this gag features a sleek design with a snug fit. The lockable buckle closure ensures security, while the mouth savers provide added comfort. Explore your wildest fantasies with this must-have accessory.

So there you have it - some friendly advice to help you make the most of ball gags. At Pleasure Chest, you're in for a treat whether you're shopping online or visiting our adult store in Sydney! Our range of sex toys will definitely impress you. Enjoy free shipping on orders over $100 when you shop online, or if you're in the Sydney CBD, try our convenient click and collect service and drop by our store. Our friendly team of experts are always ready to assist you.


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